Poetry Collection Review: How to Fly (In Ten Thousand Easy Lessons)

April is National Poetry Month, a month set aside to celebrate poetry and its vital place in our society. Launched by the Academy of American Poets in 1996, this month-long celebration has attracted millions of readers, students, teachers, librarians, booksellers, and poets.

Each Friday of April, I will share a favorite poetry collection.

Today’s pick is How to Fly (In Ten Thousand Easy Lessons) by Barbara Kingsolver, a collection described as “reflections on the practical, the spiritual, and the wild.”

Having enjoyed reading Kingsolver’s novels, I was delighted to discover that she also writes poetry. In this collection, she explores everyday life with warmth and insight.

The book opens with a series of “how to” poems that range from the intimate—marriage and divorce—to the unexpected, like shearing a sheep or doing nothing at all. Her poem “How to Survive This” was featured in The New York Times during the pandemic.

The second set, “Pellegrinaggio,” follows a family trip to Italy with her mother-in-law. I could easily visualize the following scene in “On the Train to Sicily:”

“In a family compartment we take the long
road south, down the coast and across the channel
to the patria of her father. She is so tired.
We’ve lifted her onto the sill of this urbane clatter,
tucked ourselves in a cupboard of relative
peace, but now her small frame finds no resting
place on the great square seats. We offer
pillows, sips of water. She only says, Don’t worry.

Next come four sets of poems about making peace (or not) with our families and friends, aging, grief, and mortality. The final set celebrates the natural world–ruthless ants, clever shellfish, coral reefs, haunting deserts, and ghost-flowers. While reading this set, I was reminded of Mary Oliver’s poems.

I recommend taking your time to read and reflect on each poem. Seven sets in seven days—one possibility. Or simply devour them in one or two gulps and then return to the ones that resonate most with you.

One of my favorites:

How to Do Absolutely Nothing

Rent a house near the beach, or a cabin
but: Do not take your walking shoes.
Don’t take any clothes you’d wear
anyplace anyone would see you.
Don’t take your rechargeables.
Take Scrabble if you have to,
but not a dictionary and no
pencils for keeping score.
Don’t take a cookbook
or anything to cook.
A fishing pole, ok
but not the line,
hook, sinker,
leave it all.
Find out
what’s
left.

It’s National Optimism Month!

March is National Optimism Month—a time to embrace the power of positive thinking and its impact on our lives. Established in 2016, this initiative is backed by research in positive psychology, which highlights the benefits of adopting an optimistic mindset. Studies show that optimism can lead to improved health, increased life satisfaction, and greater resilience in the face of adversity.

Simple Strategies

1. Post uplifting quotes, stories, or personal reflections on social media. A little positivity can go a long way in brightening someone’s day.

2. Decorate your home or workplace with vibrant posters featuring inspiring messages. Daily visual reminders can boost motivation and uplift your mood.

3. Join a local charity or volunteer at an animal shelter, soup kitchen, or community garden. Acts of kindness not only help others but also bring a deep sense of joy and purpose.

4. Curate a collection of songs that energize and uplift you. Share it with friends and family, and take time to dance, sing along, or simply enjoy the feel-good vibes.

5. Jot down three things for which you are grateful. This simple daily habit can rewire your brain to focus on the good, fostering a more optimistic outlook on life.

Favorite Quotes

“I’m an incurable optimist, and I’m a great believer in never looking back. Life is too short, and new challenges are exciting.” Cherie Blair

“The difference between an optimist and a pessimist? An optimist laughs to forget, but a pessimist forgets to laugh.” Tom Bodett

“Optimism is essential to achievement and it is also the foundation of courage and true progress.” Nicholas M. Butler

“A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.” Winston Churchill

“I am an optimist. I choose to be. There is a lot of darkness in our well, there is a lot of pain. You can choose to see that, or you can choose to see the joy. If you try to respond positively to the world, you will spend your time better.”
Tom Hiddleston

“Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.” Helen Keller

“Optimism doesn’t mean that you are blind to the reality of the situation. It means that you remain motivated to seek a solution to whatever problems arise.”
Dalai Lama

“Go out of your way to talk optimistically about everything.”
Norman Vincent Peale

“I am confident that, in the end, common sense and justice will prevail. I’m an optimist, brought up on the belief that if you wait to the end of the story, you get to see the good people live happily ever after.” Cat Stevens

“I have become my own version of an optimist. If I can’t make it through one door, I’ll go through another door – or I’ll make a door. Something terrific will come no matter how dark the present.” Rabindranath Tagore

Any other strategies or favorite quotes to share?