Remembering Dr. Wayne Dyer

Brilliant. Inspiring. Visionary. Teacher. Speaker. Author.

These are only a handful of descriptors that can be used to describe this pioneer in the personal-development field.

Today would have been Dr. Wayne Dyer’s 76th birthday. I’m honoring his birthday by recalling 10 quotes that have motivated and inspired me for over three decades.

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“Circumstances do not make a man, they reveal him.”

“If you believe it will work out, you’ll see opportunities. If you believe it won’t you will see obstacles.”

“Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.”

“Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.”

“When you dance, your purpose is not to get to a certain place on the floor. It’s to enjoy each step along the way.”

“Conflict cannot survive without your participation.”

“Stop acting as if life is a rehearsal. Live this day as if it were your last. The past is over and gone. The future is not guaranteed.”

“How people treat you is their karma. How you react is yours.”

“When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.”

“It’s never crowded along the extra mile.”

Do you have a favorite quote from Dr. Wayne Dyer?

Own Your Own Life

Welcome to my Second Acts Series!

Today, we have Wild Rose Press author Nina Barrett sharing her inspiring journey and new release, Renegade Heart.

Here’s Nina!

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I always wanted to be a writer, but being shy, it was hard to say so out loud. As a child I made up stories in my head, completed a mystery manuscript in junior high and exchanged stories and poems with a writer friend in high school. After finishing college and surviving a divorce, I began life as a single mother teaching in a small town. I loved teaching, but it wasn’t enough. Teaching was what I did; a writer was what I was.

I wrote stealthily at nights and in the car, waiting on my son to finish his swimming or piano lessons. A newspaper article about the Antioch Writers’ Workshop in Yellow Springs, Ohio sponsoring a scholarship contest piqued my interest. I submitted a piece of writing without anything in the way of expectations. Sometime later a letter in reply arrived. It took more than a few days to open it.

Someone – actually a committee – liked my work. I was privileged to attend the workshop and take a class with the incomparable Sue Grafton. The experience encouraged me to continue writing and submitting to agents and editors.

Unsuccessfully.

I returned to Antioch and took a class with romance writer Jennifer Crusie who is as encouraging and supportive as she is talented.

I grew up relishing the works of such authors as Phyllis Whitney, Mary Stewart, Mignon Eberhart and Daphne du Maurier. I began reading what was currently available in the field of romantic suspense and completed my first romantic suspense manuscript. It failed to find a publisher.

Through my local RWA chapter, I learned of a small e-publisher opening for business and soliciting for manuscripts. To my shock, I received the call and in June 2012 my Western romance Marriage Made in Haven was published by Musa Publishing. Since then my books Return of the Dixie Deb and A Man to Waste Time On have been published by the Wild Rose Press. On April 27th my novel Renegade Heart will be released.

Romance doesn’t always have the respect other genres receive. I write light, contemporary romances meant to entertain, to make someone’s day a little brighter. Romance + mystery + an HEA: I think the world could use more than that and I like trying to provide it.

Advice for anyone pursing a similar dream? Own your own life. At the end of it would you rather say I tried, I tried as hard as I could but I didn’t succeed or I was scared so I didn’t try?

Favorite Quotation: It’s never too late to become what you might have been.
George Eliot

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As if Vegas didn’t have excitement enough, December brings the National Finals Rodeo to the city. Heading the Imperial Hotel’s participation as a host hotel, Kerstin Hennepin is rushing to a meeting when a fall sends her tumbling into a stranger’s arms and he’s in no hurry to let her go.

Jake Aaron is a troubleshooter for the rodeo Or maybe he’s just plain trouble. Their attraction is instant and one close encounter leads to another, but Jake comes with plenty of questions. True he’s busy handing the offstage antics of rowdy rodeo contestants, but does his job also include romancing a young barrel rider and carrying a concealed weapon?

With the finale of the Finals approaching, Kerstin needs answers. But when her search for the truth reveals more is going on behind the scenes than on the arena floor, she and Jake are squarely in someone’s cross hairs.

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Where to find Nina…

Amazon | Goodreads

Joanne here!

Nina, Like you I also taught for many years, all the while secretly dreaming of a writing career. I enjoyed learning more about your journey and appreciate the advice given. BTW…George Eliot’s quote is also one of my favorites.

Happy National Teacher Appreciation Day

In 1953, Eleanor Roosevelt persuaded the 81st Congress to proclaim National Teachers’ Day. The day was celebrated on March 7th until 1985, when the National PTA established Teacher Appreciation Week as the first full week of May. The first Tuesday of the that week was then designated as National Teacher Appreciation Day, a day to thank all the special teachers in our lives.

Here are ten of my favorite quotes about teachers…

A teacher affects eternity; he can never tell where his influence stops.
Henry Adams

Those who educate children well are more to be honored than they who produce them; for these only gave them life, those the art of living well. Aristotle

Teachers, I believe, are the most responsible and important members of society because their professional efforts affect the fate of the earth. Helen Caldicott

If you have to put someone on a pedestal, put teachers. They are society’s heroes.
Guy Kawasaki

Teachers can change lives with just the right mix of chalk and challenges. Joyce Meyer

Education is the key to success in life, and teachers make a lasting impact in the lives of their students. Solomon Ortiz

The dream begins with a teacher who believes in you, who tugs and pushes and leads you to the next plateau, sometimes poking you with a sharp stick called ‘truth’.
Dan Rather

Most of us end up with no more than five or six people who remember us. Teachers have thousands of people who remember them for the rest of their lives. Andy Rooney

They inspire you, they entertain you, and you end up learning a ton even when you don’t know it. Nicholas Sparks

Teaching is a calling too. And I’ve always thought that teachers in their way are holy – angels leading their flocks out of the darkness. Jeannette Walls

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At the Transformational Wellness Fair

This past Saturday, I attended the Transformational Wellness Fair at Dublin Street United Church in Guelph, Ontario. Over thirty holistic practitioners and vendors set up booths featuring a diverse array of products and services.

I also listened to the following guest speakers:

Jill Hewlett is an internationally recognized speaker, trainer, author, wellness TV personality, and brain fitness expert. In the hour-long session, she shared simple and effective ways to improve cognition.

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Some of Jill’s insights and suggestions…

The brain is the most powerful, complex, and clever technology on the planet.

Make coffee something you enjoy, not a tool to sculpt your brain.

Do things differently and create your own results.

We first work on habits, and then our habits make us.

When you feed your body properly, you will fuel your brain.

Brain at its best: 80% water, 12% fatty lipids, 8% protein.

Be hydrated…If you’re thinking, you’re drinking.

As we move our bodies, we recreate our brains.

If you say “No” too often, you will remain in your comfort zone.

If you’re in your comfort zone, give yourself novelty. If you’re always on the go, give yourself more structure and rest.

Jill showed a trailer of The Croods. This prehistoric comedy adventure follows the world’s first family as they embark on a journey of a lifetime when the cave that has always shielded them from danger is destroyed.

In the next hour, Energy Worker Tina Wright facilitated an interactive session, where we danced, opened and closed sacred spaces, and constructed our own sand paintings. This shamanic practice enables us to remove energy blocks that may be holding us back in our life journeys.Contact Tina at healingstates@gmail.com for more information.

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roxanaIn her session, Naturotherapist Roxana Roshon helped bridge the gap between Western medicine and complementary therapies. After personally experiencing the healing power of alternative medicine, she obtained a Ph.D. in Toxicology and trained in
holistic energy healing (BOS, TBM, Therapeutic Touch, Craniosacral Therapy), with a focus on indigenous healing techniques (Mexica /Toltec). In addition to sharing her own journey, Roxana described breathing techniques and other tips for providing relief. She also guided us through a relaxing meditation.

The afternoon ended with a session on “The Fulfillment Factor” by Russell Scott. A former addictions counselor, Russell now provides one-on-one work and retreats for independent seekers aka mystic misfits. His primary purpose: “Help people awaken and live their best lives.”

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Some of Russell’s insights and suggestions…

It’s not always about being happy–Our aim is to be authentic and real.

What fulfills us is the development of consciousness.

Learn from the insanity.

If you want to change your situation, you need to accept it as it is. Allow for the natural flow of life.

When you don’t accept the situation, resistance will block the natural flow.

If you are struggling with acceptance, start journaling. At the top of a journal page, write “The truth of this situation is…” After several days of journaling, reread your entries and circle anything that stands out.

The best book is the book of yourself.

Purpose of life: To be fully who you are.


Listen to Your Inner Voice

Welcome to my Second Acts Series!

Today, we have Soul Mate author Carole Ann Moleti sharing her first and second acts and new release, Breakwater Beach.

Here’s Carole!

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I decided I wanted to be a nurse the day I turned seven, and though I fantasized like most young children about being a rock star, equestrian, or a ballerina, that resolved never wavered. I doctored up injured creatures I came across, was always fascinated by biology and devoured Cherry Ames books along with Nancy Drew mysteries, Whitman Westerns, and seminal science fiction works like The Andromeda Strain and Arm of the Starfish.

There were horses the Bronx, NYC at that time (believe it or not) but my parents didn’t have the funds for that hobby. I learned enough at Ms. Tessie’s School of Ballet to be in end of the year performances and school, and Girl Scout productions attended by devoted grandparents and parents, but as my father tactfully pointed out, I didn’t have the body of a ballerina (or the talent).

Pragmatism was a trait in my family—and I went with the original plan. I followed the prescribed course of action winning science awards and honors, and studying nursing in college, graduate school, and even obtained a doctorate in nursing practice. I’ve specialized in family health and midwifery, and for twenty of my twenty-eight year career, followed the logical progression of promotions to achieve exactly what I wanted-to take care of people and make a difference in their lives.

What triggered the need for change?

In the early 1980s, health became a business with terms like ‘throughputs’ and ‘outputs’ replacing ‘patients’ and ‘getting better.’ Getting them in and out fast became a measure of ‘provider productivity,’ and ‘outcomes’ became buzzwords prefaced by ‘favorable’ and ‘unfavorable.’ Most doctors and nurses revile this approach to what should be an art and science not a business, but our voices have been drowned out. Spending on actual patient care competes with funds for departments devoted to compliance with laws and regulations, billing and coding, and quality management—all euphemisms for not losing reimbursement because you didn’t follow the rules, maximizing the amount you get for each visit or hospital stay, and tweaking the system when there are too many complications or adverse outcomes occurring.

This transformed my profession into a punching bag. I felt like a wishbone being pulled apart by the resolve to do the best I could for patients while not violating rules, regulations, policies and procedures that do not always make sense at 2 am on Sunday, when a critical situation occurred and I was in charge of taking an action, the consequences of which I’d have to live with for the rest of my life.

Where are you now?

In 2005, I started to explore what I really wanted to do now that I was all grown up. After watching a Star Wars movie, I realized how popular culture insidiously glorifies violence against women. I decided to write a novel that addressed that—and did. It’s still in a trunk and may never be published, but that began my second career writing fantasy and science fiction and creative nonfiction (including two memoirs) that focus on environmental, political and women’s issues. My influences are feminist literature from the 1970s, classic science fiction and fantasy, my grandmother’s hand me down romance novels, and literary classics. I still read (and write) academic papers and research articles but my several part time jobs pay the bills while giving me more flexibility to spend time writing.

In 2006, I started a very cross genre paranormal romance story that turned into the Unfinished Business series. It is not autobiographical, but was strongly influenced by my childhood, living on the waterfront, vacations on Cape Cod, and the perspective a midwife who did her residency on the North Shore of Massachusetts-near Salem. Breakwater Beach was just published, the sequel is out, and the third book is in revision.

My next project is a gritty urban fantasy series Boulevard of Bad Spells and Broken Dreams, which is set in the Bronx, where I grew up and now work. It’s like Tom Wolfe’s Bonfire of the Vanities with a paranormal twist. Excerpts of my memoirs have been published in a variety of literary journals and I won the Oasis Journal award for creative nonfiction in 2009.

In 2007, I started taking ballet classes again and now study at a studio in Manhattan under dancers who have performed with major ballet companies. Those journeys, along with many of my health care related experiences, have been incorporated into my memoirs.

Do you have advice for anyone planning to pursue a second act?

Listen to your inner voice. Be open to making a major change even if it involves going back to school to learn new skills. With the advent of the Internet, I was able to take creative writing classes that developed my skills and are now helping to advance my second career. It is never easy, but don’t listen to those who might discourage you–even if it’s sideways glances or eyes rolling, or giving your work little credence. I have made the most steadfast writing friends over the last eleven years.

Any affirmations or quotations you wish to share?

“Administrators are people who do things the right way, but leaders are those we depend upon to do the right thing.”
– Warren Bennis and Burt Nanus, 1985

Doing the right thing is not always the right thing to do. Always follow your heart, and your conscience, and your dreams.

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Liz Levine is convinced her recently deceased husband is engineering the sequence of events that propels her into a new life. But it’s sea captain Edward Barrett, the husband that died over a century ago, who has returned to complete their unfinished business. Edward’s lingering presence complicates all her plans and jeopardizes a new relationship that reawakens her passion for life and love. What are Captain Barrett’s plans for his wife, and for the man who is the new object of her affections?

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Bio

Carole Ann Moleti lives and works as a nurse-midwife in New York City, thus explaining her fascination with all things paranormal, urban fantasy, and space opera. Her nonfiction focuses on health care, politics, and women’s issues. But her first love is writing science fiction and fantasy because walking through walls is less painful than running into them.

Books One and Two in the Unfinished Business series, Carole’s Cape Cod paranormal romance novels, Breakwater Beach and The Widow’s Walk, were published by Soulmate. Book Three, Storm Watch, is expected in 2017. Urban fantasies set in the world of Carole’s novels have been featured in Haunted: Ten Tales of Ghosts, Seers: Ten Tales of Clairvoyance, Beltane: Ten Tales of Witchcraft, and Bites: Ten Tales of Vampires.

Carole also writes non fiction that ranges from sweet and sentimental in This Path and Thanksgiving to Christmas to edgy and irreverent in the Not Your Mother’s Books: On Being a Mother and On Being a Parent.

Free reads

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Where to find Carole…

Website | Amazon | Twitter | Facebook | Google+ | Goodreads

Joanne here!

Carole, thanks for sharing your inspiring journey and excellent advice. Best of luck with Breakwater Beach.


Of Course an Old Dog Can Learn New Tricks

Welcome to my Second Acts Series!

Today, we have Soul Mate author Annalisa Carr sharing her leap into a second act and her latest release: Children of Poseidon: Rann.

Here’s Annalisa!

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Like most people I’ve constantly made small involuntary changes to what I do and who I am, so that the person I am today is very different from the person I was thirty, ten or, even, five years ago. The biggest change has been deliberate though; eighteen months ago I leapt sideways from my first career into what I hope will be my second one.

I never had a life plan, or a career plan, but I was lucky enough to drift into work I enjoyed and found challenging. I moved on from studying environmental chemistry in Edinburgh into doing a PhD in structural biology in London, and spent the next thirty years working as a structural biologist. After spending fifteen years in Cambridge (UK) as a scientist and a manager I decided I needed a complete change.

I’ve written in various genres throughout my life, and studied several online courses in creative writing. I’d had several short stories published, my first novel accepted by Soulmate Publishing and I found that writing was dominating my free time and intruding into my working day. In 2014 I took a deep breath, applied to study for an MA in Creative Writing at Lancaster University, handed in my resignation, sold my house and moved north to the English Lake District.

I finished the MA last year, and it was one of the best years I’ve ever spent. I met other writers of all ages, nationalities and backgrounds, was give lots of useful feedback, and experimented in genres I’d never written in before.

My income has dwindled to almost nothing at the moment, but I’m not letting that worry me. I live in a beautiful national park and, although the area was almost washed away by floods this winter, I’m sure the summer will be glorious. I’ve never regretted my decision, and I’m determined to make the most of the time and opportunity to write and, hopefully, to publish. My friends and relatives have been very supportive (if a little jealous) and the CEO of my old company has offered me some contract work I can do from home.

I’ve given up financial security, but I’ve followed my dream and who knows where it may eventually lead me.

If you want a second act, or even a third, don’t wait. Work on getting it. As Albert Einstein said, ‘A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new’.

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Blurb

Annalisa Carr’s most recent release is the second book in her ‘Sons of the Sea God’ trilogy: Children of Poseidon: Rann.

Poseidon’s son Rann has been content to rule his island paradise for centuries, but now something dangerous is stirring in his seas. A dark web of evil spreads from the horn of Africa to the covens of London.

A call for help from her old coven gives young witch Jewel a reason to leave her island home and her crush on Rann, and hurry back to London where old crimes are rising to disturb the city’s magic community.

The past is about to collide with Jewel’s present and threaten her future with something far more lethal than unrequited love.

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Bio

An addiction to science fiction meant that Annalisa Carr chose to pursue a career in science, spending most of her life working as a scientist in Cambridge, UK. Unfortunately, given the reason for her career choice, she never made it into space and has never been to Alpha Centauri IV.

Two years ago she moved to the English Lake District where she shares a house with her three cats, and indulges her need to explore alien cultures by writing about them.

She writes (and reads voraciously) in several genres, her favourites being urban fantasy, paranormal romance and science fiction. She is working on her third book in her ‘Children of Poseidon’ trilogy.

Where to find Annalisa Carr…

Website | Twitter | Amazon

Joanne here!

Wow!! You give new meaning to the following quote from Neale Donald Walsh: “Life begins at the edge of your comfort zone.” Thanks for an inspiring post and best of luck with all your future endeavors.


Indulge Your Passion

Welcome to my Second Acts Series!

Today, we have Wild Rose Press author Ashantay Peters chatting about her multi-act life and her latest release, Déjà Vu All Over Again.

Here’s Ashantay!

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I’m one of those women who has reinvented herself over and over. For example, in high school I worked part-time in retail, after graduation I moved to office clerk and then to secretary. I didn’t begin college until I was in my early thirties, working full-time while taking a full class load. No, I wasn’t crazy, but I often felt like I was losing my mind!

After college, I entered the HR field, and I spent most of the rest of my professional life hiring, firing, and talking benefits and payroll. Well, except for a stint in risk management. And I did shift from corporate to government then back to corporate again. And ran a retail store in the middle there, somewhere. Oh, and managed a small transit system.

I didn’t plan to jump around so much, but as John Lennon said, “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.”

Now that I’m retired, I wonder not how I got everything done, but why I pushed so hard. Retirement has meant a huge reduction in available income, but I find that many of the things I “needed” have fallen away. So too the activities that “had” to be done.

And, bonus – I get to use life experiences in my books. That boss no one likes? Killed him off in book four. The best friend who wasn’t – book two. And then there’s the woman who regrets that her first marriage failed – and wishes she could have a do over. Book six. We all have stories, right?

All that being said, I’d advise anyone planning to retire soon to examine your life now. If an event or activity doesn’t bring you joy, maybe it’s time to let that stuff go. Have you always wanted to travel somewhere? Don’t wait! Go now! But most important, indulge your passion. Live your dreams.

As Lewis Carroll wrote in Alice in Wonderland, “I knew who I was this morning, but I’ve changed a few times since then.” Embrace change. Accept life.

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Blurb

Rock star Jack Reed has secrets. He’s kept his first marriage to a girl he met at Woodstock, and their son, under wraps for decades. Now his child has tracked him down wanting answers. Former hippie Sally Ford never fully recovered from Jack’s betrayal of their family. She believes he put his career first then and will again, leading to another shattered ending. Jack and Sally’s first meeting is combustible. Can they confront their past and overcome a history of deceit and manipulation to find peace and love?

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Bio

Ashantay Peters loves escaping into a well-written book. Her reading addiction also has her perusing magazines, newspapers, Internet articles and even food labels. The last is often feebly excused as an attempt to maintain health, but her friends know the truth.

She lives in the mountains of western North Carolina, a happy transplant from the much colder (and flatter) Midwest. She loves to hear from readers! Give her a holler via her blog and she’ll get back with you as soon as she comes in from gardening or takes a break from writing her next book. You have her solemn promise that she will not stalk you.

Where to find Ashantay…

Website | Blog | Amazon | Twitter

Joanne here!

Ashantay, thanks for sharing your varied experiences and excellent advice. Best of luck with all your literary endeavors.


A Storyteller’s Journey

Welcome to my Second Acts Series!

Today, we have author Becky Lower sharing excellent advice on launching second acts and her upcoming release, The Forgotten Debutante.

Here’s Becky!

beckylowerBriefly describe your first act.

My first act was a series of missteps. Although I graduated college with a degree in English and Journalism, I didn’t follow the writing path. I’d always been a storyteller, mostly spilling family secrets, but never translated that talent into a writing career. Instead, I worked in advertising, trade show management and other boring jobs, fulfilling my creative needs with a variety of hobbies. I learned to quilt, knit, refinish furniture, cross-stitch, needlepoint, you name it. But none of these outlets quite fit either. I floundered a lot during my adult life.

What triggered the need for change?

As I was approaching retirement, I thought about what to do next. Because of all my floundering, I hadn’t amassed a nice nest egg, so I needed to plan on something else for income. I found an adult education course on writing the romance novel, and thought, why not? I’d been reading romances my entire adult life. It was now time to put my storytelling and creativity together. I’d like to say the six week long class propelled me to instant fame, but I’d be lying. I spent the next few years learning my craft.

Where are you now?

Still learning. I now have 13 books published, and am still waiting for the breakthrough book. I liken my career to a snowball rolling down a hill. It starts out small and gains size and momentum as it goes.

Do you have advice for anyone planning to pursue a second act?

Start your second act the moment you think of it. Don’t wait until you have the time. If your life doesn’t feel right to you, make a change.

Any affirmations or quotations you wish to share?

My favorite quote is from one of my heroes–Jedediah Smith, an early American fur trapper and explorer. While he was trying to find a way across the mountains, he said sometimes in order to get ahead, we must be turned back. So, if what you’re doing isn’t working for you, turn back to your roots and figure out what’s missing, then forge ahead.

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Don’t miss the touching conclusion to the Cotillion Ball Saga!

In 1863, America is war-weary. Fifteen-year-old Saffron Fitzpatrick, whose teenage years have been spent mourning the dead rather than dancing at her debutante ball, just wants to visit her beloved horse after being housebound due to the draft riots. A chance meeting with soldier Ezekiel Boone changes everything.

Three years ago, Ezekiel ran away with his older brothers to join the war effort, welcoming the chance for adventure. But when all four of his brothers die at Chancellorsville, he retreats home, despondent and depending on the kindness of strangers, like Saffron, who help him on the journey. They share a wild ride and a breathless kiss, parting with fond memories.

Fate reunites the couple three years later, and their former attraction rekindles as they discover unexpected common ground and begin to build a relationship. But though the war is over, a future together may still elude them . . . especially if Saffron’s older, protective brother and the U.S. Army have anything to say about it.

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Where to find Becky…

Website | Facebook | Twitter | Pinterest | Blog | Goodreads | Google+ | Amazon

Joanne here!

Becky, I’ve been following your journey for several years and am impressed by the body of work you have produced. Best of luck in the future.