Beyond the Clutter

On Wednesdays, I share posts, fables, songs, poems, quotations, TEDx Talks, cartoons, and books that have inspired and motivated me on my writing journey. I hope these posts will give writers, artists, and other creatives a mid-week boost.

In the Summer 2024 edition of Oprah Daily, professional organizer Julie Morgenstern shared hard-won wisdom about clutter. Here’s an excerpt from the article:

Being organized is all about being ready. Ready for the phone to ring with a spur-of-the-moment invitation. Ready for an emergency should a crisis erupt. Ready to pursue your passions.

Organizing is the process by which we create environments and schedules that enable us to live, work, and relax exactly as we want. It is a liberating process—an empowering, nurturing, exhilarating journey. And it’s not about getting rid of things. Organizing from the inside out is a drive toward truth. It’s about discovering the truth of who you are and what is important to you. Organizing is not the destination; it is the gateway to achieving your higher goals.

To assess your current level of organization, ask yourself:

Can I find what I need when I need it?

Does my environment allow me to express my whole self?

Am I surrounded only by things I use and love?

Is my day filled with the activities that are most important to me?

If you answered yes to all these questions, relax. You’re doing fine. But if you answered no, the next question is, Are you ready for change?

Surprisingly, the truth lies not in the quantity of piles or in how long you’ve been disorganized. Breakthrough occurs when you suddenly see something on the other side of the clutter that you desperately, vividly want.

So let me give you an assignment. Ask yourself what is on the other side of your clutter? What do you hope to gain? Is it clear? Is it compelling? Are you ready to embrace it? Because the skills it takes to get organized are simple. Beyond the clutter, I promise you’ll find the space and the time to fulfill your dreams.

Give Yourself Grace and Acceptance

On Wednesdays, I share posts, fables, songs, poems, quotations, TEDx Talks, cartoons, and books that have inspired and motivated me on my writing journey. I hope these posts will give writers, artists, and other creatives a mid-week boost.

A long-time fan of bestselling authors and coaches Marc and Angel Chernoff, I look forward to reading their emails and blog posts. Here’s an excerpt from a recent post:

As a child you impressed and inspired yourself on a daily basis. You ran, jumped, swung, sang, and danced openly without a care in the world — without worrying about what everyone else thought of you. You didn’t need anyone else’s constant approval, because deep down you knew you were amazing.

But as you grew into adulthood the pressure from peers, popular media, and society as a whole began to wear on you. You started comparing yourself to everyone around you. You judged and measured your body, your lifestyle, your career, and your relationships against other people’s lives. And when you realized that many of these people have things that you do not, bitterness set in and you gradually stopped appreciating all the great things you do have in your life.

Optimists defend themselves against this self-dislike in two primary ways. First, they get back to trusting their own intuition when it comes to their daily activities. They stop asking for everyone else’s approval and simply do what they know in their heart feels right. Second, optimists don’t judge themselves against a set of unrealistic, third-party ideals. They let go of the ideals and instead hold on to the belief that they are always good enough just the way they are, even as they grow into stronger, wiser versions of themselves.

Note: I highly recommend subscribing to Marc & Angel’s website.

Plant Success

On Wednesdays, I share posts, fables, songs, poems, quotations, TEDx Talks, cartoons, and books that have inspired and motivated me on my writing journey. I hope these posts will give writers, artists, and other creatives a mid-week boost.

Whenever I need a boost, I reread Write Smart, Write Happy by award-winning author Cheryl St. John. Here’s an uplifting excerpt:

More than once I’ve heard the mind compared to land or soil. Land is lying there, available. If you have a yard or a garden, you know this. A farmer knows it, up close and personal. Land doesn’t have an opinion about what becomes of it; it’s ready for anything. If no one ever plows or plants seeds or fertilizes, the land will produce only weeds. Maybe a stray wildflower or tree seed will happen by, and if the weather permits and there is adequate rain and sun, those seeds will grow into plants. Anything that grows is by happenstance.

But a farmer can plow and prepare the soil and plant any crop he wishes—anything from corn to deadly nightshade. Land doesn’t care. It will produce whatever is planted. But land always returns what is planted.

The same is true for our minds. We can let our minds fall idle to whatever happens to fall in and take root. Or we can create goals, prepare our thoughts, and plant success. Our minds don’t care what we plant, but whatever we plant is what will grow and be returned to us.

Source: Write Smart, Write Happy by Cheryl St. John, p. 256

New Release – Just Say Yes

I’m thrilled to announce the release of Just Say Yes, the latest book in the Chicken Soup for the Soul series. My story, “Worth a Try,” was selected as one of the 101 stories for this publication.

About the Anthology

Try new things, overcome your fears, and broaden your world. You’ll feel empowered, emboldened, and energized when you step outside your comfort zone and Just Say Yes!

Just Say Yes! Say “YES” to what challenges you. Say “YES” to facing your fears. Say “YES” to reinventing yourself. Say “YES” to a more exciting and bigger world. Whether it’s something little—like trying a new food—or something big—like traveling to a far away country—we feel empowered when we say YES. You can do it! And the entertaining, personal accounts in these 101 stories will give you motivation and inspiration you need. All you have to do is say “YES.”

Excerpt from Worth a Try

Each morning, I faced the tyranny of the blank page. Everything was in place—business cards, a new computer, and dreams of a runaway bestseller. Unfortunately, my underdeveloped writing muscles refused to cooperate.

A fellow writer said, “You need to shake up your life.”

Creating an oasis of calm had been one of my retirement goals—a reward, or so I believed, for surviving three decades of teaching adolescents. I enjoyed my luncheon dates, yoga sessions, and uninterrupted blocks of reading time. Did I really want to shake up my life? I was stuck, though. So maybe it was worth a try.

Friends offered several suggestions, including signing up for kickboxing, running a marathon, and joining a local theater group. While considering the kickboxing option, I noticed an invitation from Royal City Toastmasters in the local newspaper. I sent a quick e-mail informing the contact person that I would be attending their next meeting.

Several times, I contemplated canceling but talked myself out of it. A bit apprehensive before arriving, I relaxed when I saw twelve people in the boardroom, most of them women. We chatted for a few minutes, and then a gentleman called the meeting to order.

I watched as two members rose to share the word and joke of the day. A third member introduced the Table Topics section of the meeting. I gathered from her brief description that impromptu speaking was involved. And then the woman turned in my direction and smiled. “Joanne, would you like to participate?”

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What Are You Saying?

On Wednesdays, I share posts, fables, songs, poems, quotations, TEDx Talks, cartoons, and books that have inspired and motivated me on my writing journey. I hope these posts will give writers, artists, and other creatives a mid-week boost.

Here’s a thought-provoking reflection from international speaker and bestselling author Joyce Meyer:

You’ve probably heard someone say, “You might end up eating those words.” It may sound like a simple expression to us, but in reality, we do eat our words. What we say not only affects our friends and the people around us, but it also profoundly affects us. The question is, how will your words impact your life: positively or negatively?

Words are wonderful when used in a proper way. They can encourage, edify, and give confidence to the hearer. A right word spoken at the right time can be used to change a life.

You can increase your own joy and greatly reduce stress by speaking the right words. You can also upset yourself by talking unnecessarily about your problems or about things that have hurt you. The choice is yours to make today and everyday.

Source: Quiet Times with God by Joyce Meyer

Inspiration from Louise Penny

On Wednesdays, I share posts, fables, songs, poems, quotations, TEDx Talks, cartoons, and books that have inspired and motivated me on my writing journey. I hope these posts will give writers, artists, and other creatives a mid-week boost.

Last month, New York Times best-selling author Louise Penny received an honorary degree from Wilfrid Laurier University in Waterloo, Ontario. Here’s the powerful speech she delivered to the Class of 2024:

My favorite quotations:

“Hope is a revolutionary act, and civility is terrifying to those who would divide us.”

“I am also very grateful to have looked into the void. No gap: no miracles, no joy, no books, no Dr. Penny.”

Give Yourself More Grace

On Wednesdays, I share posts, fables, songs, poems, quotations, TEDx Talks, cartoons, and books that have inspired and motivated me on my writing journey. I hope these posts will give writers, artists, and other creatives a mid-week boost.

A long-time fan of bestselling authors and coaches Marc and Angel Chernoff, I look forward to reading their emails and blog posts. Here’s an excerpt from a recent post:

It’s incredibly easy to overestimate the significance of a single decision, outcome, or event in the heat of the moment. But you must remind yourself to take a deep breath when things don’t go your way. Your results in the long run — good or bad — are always the byproduct of many small steps, outcomes, and events that transpire over time.

The truth is we all fail sometimes. The greater truth is that no single failure ever defines us. Learn from your mistakes, grow wiser, and press on. Character and wisdom are sculpted gradually. They come with loss, lessons, and triumphs. They come after doubts, second guesses, and uncertainty. The seeds of your success are planted in your past troubles and failures. Your best stories will come from overcoming your greatest challenges. Your praises will be birthed from your pains. So, keep standing, keep learning, and keep living.

Note: I highly recommend subscribing to Marc & Angel’s website.

On Dreaming and Writing

Last Thursday, I participated in a WFWA (Women’s Fiction Writers Association) webinar with writer, educator, and certified dreamwork professional Tzivia Gover. She is the author of Dreaming on the Page: Tap into Your Midnight Mind to Supercharge Your Writing, The Mindful Way to a Good Night’s Sleep, and Joy in Every Moment.

Tzivia began by reminding us that we are all storytelling beings who dream several times each night, whether we remember the dreams or not. Many of those dreams are filled with vivid imagery and strong emotions that can provide a gold mine of metaphors, memorable characters, plot twists, and out-of-body experiences. By tapping into these dreams, we can unlock a wealth of creative material that is unique to our own subconscious, empowering us to transform our writing in ways we never thought possible.

Continue reading on the Soul Mate Authors blog.

The Hippo

On Wednesdays, I share posts, fables, songs, poems, quotations, TEDx Talks, cartoons, and books that have inspired and motivated me on my writing journey. I hope these posts will give writers, artists, and other creatives a mid-week boost.

Here’s a thought-provoking poem from Steven Hickman:

The Hippo

The hippo floats in swamp serene,
some emerged, but most unseen.

Seeing all and only blinking,
Who knows what this beast is thinking.

Gliding, and of judgment clear,
Letting go and being here.

Seeing all, both guilt and glory,
Only noting. But that’s MY story.

I sit here hippo-like and breathe,
While inside I storm and seethe.

Would that I were half equanimous
As that placid hippopotamus.