The Right Kind of Skin – Rhino

rhino3“It behooves you to develop a thicker skin.” Toastmaster Rosalind Scantlebury

Ms. Scantlebury did not mince words at a recent Table Topics Contest. Responding to the prompt—Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me—she focused on an individual’s responsibility not to take things so personally. She peppered her impromptu talk with provocative comments, among them, “What other people think of you is none of your business.”

Definitely inspiring, especially for writers.

Thirty-one years of teaching adolescents thickened my skin considerably, but I faced different challenges when I embarked on a writing career. I had to learn how to deal effectively with critiques and rejection letters from agents, publishers, and book reviewers. And, most important of all, I had to acquire that coveted rhino skin.

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Last week, the lovely and talented Jo-Ann Carson invited me to join the Sisters of Suspense, a dynamic group of Canadian and American authors who write romantic suspense. Honored, I accepted the invitation and look forward to learning, sharing, and growing with these wonderful companions.

Today, I’m sharing my reinvention story on the Sisters of Suspense blog.